Friday, May 27, 2022

Legal rights... Government of the people?????


You must be 21 years of age to buy tobacco products in the United States.

You cannot rent a car or condo if you are not 25.

You are unable to buy a beer (or any other alcoholic beverage) in America unless you are 21.

A license is required of all of us in order to hunt, fish, or drive a car.

YET.  YET!!!! In Texas, an 18 year old can purchase an AR-15 with no waiting.  And though you must be 21 to purchase a handgun and a permit was required until September of 2021, that ceased when Gov. Greg Abbott signed legislation allowing permitless carry.  In the state of TN, you may purchase and own a gun (including an AR-15) if you are 18 with no waiting period, licensure, permit or registration.  In Georgia, you need only be 18 to purchase a handgun or long gun and no registration or permit is required for either.  I could go on...

Do these laws reflect the "right to bear arms" that the fathers' of our country and the Second Amendment sought to put in place?????  Do these laws reflect what the majority of Americans think is best today????

The data says NO!!!!!!!!!!!  New poll shows huge support for gun restrictions -

New polling after the murder of 19 babies and 2 of their teachers with 17 others injured in Uvalde, TX - not to mention after 10 lives were extinguished (including an armed retired police officer who stood guard at the door) in Buffalo, NY while shopping for groceries - all by 18 year old males in body armor while wielding semi-automatic AR-15 style rifles - shows the following:
  • Requiring background checks on all gun sales - 88% of Americans strongly or somewhat support.  8% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 80%.
  • Creating national database on all gun sales - 75% strongly or somewhat support. 18% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 57%.
  • Banning assault style weapons - 67% strongly or somewhat support.  25% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 42%.
  • Prevent the sell of all firearms to people reported as dangerous - 84% strongly or somewhat support.  9% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 75%.
  • Making private gun sales and sales at gun shows subject to background checks - 81% strongly or somewhat support.  11% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 70%.
  • Requiring safe storage by all gun owners - 77% strongly or somewhat support.  15% strongly or somewhat oppose.  Net approval = 62%.
DO WE LIVE IN A DEMOCRACY???????? Should majority rule?  Cause I may not be that good at math, but it seems to me the majority of Americans - INCLUDING GUN OWNERS!!!!!!!! - want reasonable gun laws.

Though I wish I had, I did not write the following.  Nor, unfortunately, do I know the author I should credit.  As someone who took a friend to an abortion clinic for a necessary medical procedure when I was in my early 20's - I know EXACTLY - what this scene looks like....

"How about we treat every young man who wants to buy a gun like every woman who wants to get an abortion - mandatory 48 hour waiting period, parental permission, a note from his doctor proving he understands what he's about to do, a video he has to watch about the effects of gun violence, and an ultrasound up the ass (just because).  Let's close down all but one gun shop in every state and make him travel hundreds of miles, take time off work, and stay overnight in a strange town to get a gun.  Make him walk through a gauntlet of people holding phots of loved ones who were shot to death, people who call him a murderer and beg him not to buy a gun.

It makes more sense to do this with young men and guns than with women and health care, right? I mean no woman getting an abortion has killed a room full of people in seconds, right?" 

You'd think there would be nothing more to add to that, wouldn't you?  But, no.  These points barely scratch the surface of the devastation firearms cause....


Do the citizens of this country care about children killed by firearms?  I say yes.  Every poll says so.  BUT!  Do we care enough to force our politicians to enact legislation that does what we want?  Many like to talk about the value of the Second Amendment.  I implore all Americans - for our dear babies who deserve to be educated and play in safety, so every person making a grocery run comes home safely - to embrace this -

"It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us—that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion—that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain—that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom—and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth." ~ Abraham Lincoln


VOTE your heart! FEEL the horror (as close as we who have not suffered so can) of what it would be like if YOUR baby was killed in their classroom, if YOUR grandmother was gunned down while picking up a few things for dinner. Speak loud and strong.  We need reasonable gun safety legislation.  There are 19 babies in Uvalde, TX who will never laugh and play with their families again.  For them,  we must ensure that no others suffer such a violent and senseless end. - les

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

PRO - LIFE!!!!!!!!!!

I have been taking care of children since I was 19 years old.  I have done everything in my power to keep them healthy and strong.  To help their parents do the same.  I have helped teams of others go above and beyond to save young lives.  I have rocked them to their final sleep when there was no other option.  I am pro-life!!!


Let me repeat for those in the back - FIREARMS are the leading cause of death among teens and children in the United States.

Every day, more than 110 Americans are killed with guns and more than 200 are shot and wounded.

More than 2,100 children and teens die by gun homicide every year. For children under the age of 13, these gun homicides most frequently occur in the home and are often connected to domestic or family violence.

Access to a gun triples the risk of death by suicide.

Black Americans are 10 times more likely than white Americans to die by gun homicide.

Nearly one million women alive today have been shot or shot at by an intimate partner.

            ~ Everytown Research and Policy - Report: Gun Violence in America

I am pro-life.  Are you?

Tuesday, May 24, 2022

Monsters -


I feel sick - again. I have no words. I have too many words. There is this -

"It takes a monster to kill children. But to watch monsters kill children again and again and do nothing isn't just insanity - it's inhumanity." ~ Amanda Gorman

Hug your children. Vote for reasonable leaders who understand we need reasonable gun regulation. Our children deserve it. ~ les

Monday, May 23, 2022

Still enjoying the beauty of spring!!!

 The gifts of spring continue...















Loving all the blooms, critters, and the best peeps that bring me so much joy!!!

Wishing a bounty of spring joy for each of you! - les

Sunday, May 15, 2022

Sew Chaotically! ~ Sustainable Sewing and Visible Mending!

I love to sew but cannot begin to justify making myself a new garment every week.  I am grateful that I have others who need and enjoy things I make.  It was lovely to make Roo's maternity wardrobe and all the quilts, curtains, sheets, blankets, pillow cases and such for the nursery.  The first set of little things for the Jammer were the most fun makes ever!  I've not made anything for myself in quite a while and to be honest, I probably do not NEED any new clothes til the end of my days!!!!  Still, my office heavy wardrobe will be getting a bit of a lift with a few casual and long planned special pieces over the next bit.  There are plans for some summer 'fits for the Lil Man.  Fredo's quilt...





...is pieced and being quilted.  The materials for Roo's are acquired and standing ready. But, recently, I repaired some well loved cords.  Acquired I don't know how many years ago from a shop on St. George which, oddly to my mind - given the geography and summer season - carried an excellent collection of sweaters, jeans and cords.


Reinforced, patched and embroidered with scraps of some of my favorite fabrics and colors, they should be good to go for many years more!!!  

Sew chaotically! ~ les

Monday, May 2, 2022

Across 12 Aprils!

Across Twelve Aprils!  It seems to have been half a minute or 12 lifetimes since April 30, 2010 when the right upper lobe of my lung was removed three days after having radiation to a brain met, all due to melanoma with which I was first diagnosed at Stage IIIB in 2003.  Those events were followed with 2 1/2 years in a phase 1 trial of nivolumab (Opdivo), begun in December 2010.  I first wrote of the beautiful Aprils we are blessed to experience in the TN mountains and the precious touchstone they represent for me in 2014:  Across Four Aprils...a melanoma perspective....  Last year, there was this:  Across ELEVEN Aprils!  This year, B had to remind me we were there!  I have been incredibly blessed - in my very existence; in getting to spend my days with the best bestie B a girl could have; incredible kiddos who are some of the kindest, smartest folks I know; a beautiful zany Jam who I never dared hope I would get to meet, much less share so much joy with; and a lovely garden in which to spend my days.  So, today ~ as a lucky bug ~ I share some of the beauty across my 12th April.

Despite a cold start, spring is finally here!

Probably our best year ever for all the wild azaleas!

My precious cherry trees, planted by dear B in 2008.  Not much more than sticks in the back of his Element.  When we thought surviving melanoma for 5 years, certainly no small thing, meant more than we came to realize. 

I love these bright azaleas against the fresh ferns.

More wild azaleas!







My intrepid beastie bestie!





The Virginia Blue Bells have been so lovely!

Bentie built me two bridges!!  Can't wait to play Billy Goat Gruff with Jam!

I love wild geraniums!





My gigantically gorgeous rhodies!

Still more wild azaleas!


More!!!



Even MORE!!!!!

May Apples ALWAYS make me smile!

The foam flowers have been so pretty.

Here's to more Aprils, thankfulness, dragonflies, turtles, torties, dear ones (big and small), and beauty in precious moments.  ~ les