Sunday, June 21, 2020

Always up for it ~ This guy!


No matter how tired, no matter how crazy, no matter his personal preference - this guy was THERE!  Ready for any challenge he or the kiddos could dream up...

The FIRST of sooooo many pumpkins!!!



Yep!  You join the fam - you make a punkin!
So many bait fish collected!  With astonishing sun screen application!!!
So many fierce animals to ride!

Hikes to edges of cliffs, never mind personal concerns about heights!
Always demonstrating serious dedication to silliness!

So much running!!!

And splashing!!!

Yes, these are fierce animals!!!


Definitely up for family eating!
Snow playing.
Special presents.
Being the zaniest family photographer!
The best sous chef!

Always ready for Bancy Falls!
And crazy fun...
And building computers...

Celebrating every moment with the best smile...
...and the biggest heart.
Good thing too, my sweet peeps, cause yo momma ain't ride'n no elephant, running a half marathon, or building a computer!!!!!!  But perhaps the best thing he ever did for you was...


...keep your mother sane!!!  HA!!!  We love you, Bentie.  You are the best daddy ever!!! - les

Thursday, June 11, 2020

And just like that....


...my sweet zany baby boy...








...has grown into an amazing man, with the kindest heart.

And right on cue ~


~ the Fred Azaleas celebrate his special day.  I love you ever so much, Freddie Froo!!!  Happy birthday. - mommy

Friday, June 5, 2020

Winds of change?


One step backwards, a few steps forward?


Sadly, in my hometown, the statue of Confederate Lt. General A.P. Stewart, defaced in recent protests sparked by the murder of George Floyd outside the Courthouse, will be restored and remain in place.  As recently as 2017, in the midst of an effort to have it removed, county commissioners voted 6-2 to keep it.


In better news, the ginormous statue of Confederate General Robert E. Lee, long a source of pain to black residents of Richmond, Virginia and defaced in recent protests, will be REMOVED!!!!  The irony that this move is led by the governor, a man only 5 years older than I, who somehow thought it was okay to be photographed, while in COLLEGE, in blackface with someone in KKK garb (or vice versa, since to my knowledge he has never admitted which role he took - as if that could slip your mind - though he has apologized) is not lost.  Perhaps I should view this as a hopeful sign that people can learn and change rather than my more natural cynical view that this is token penance.  Either way, I'll take it.

Also wafting forward with the more positive breeze, the monument to Confederate troops in Birmingham, AL was removed this week and the statue to Frank Rizza, the Police Commissioner and Mayor who effectively opposed desegregation from 1972-1980 is to be taken down in Philadelphia.

Slowly we change, but change we must.  Now.  What happened to #chattanoogastrong ??????  Hmmmm?????  This breeze is but the quiet before the hurricane.  A hurricane, that in this case we can prevent if we simply do what is right.  Is the removal of a hurtful monument to the enslavement of our black friends and neighbors and the deaths of 750,000 Americans really that difficult?  What are these monuments here to commemorate exactly?  Think about it, Chattanooga.  ~ les

Monday, June 1, 2020

Real Leadership ~


In this crazy time, real leadership has been hard to find - especially at the pinnacle of our government where it should be the most cohesive, intelligent, and certain to protect the weakest among us.  Longstanding prejudice and systemic racism in this country has affected our black and brown brothers and sisters in ways that damaged their chances for education, economic advancement, basic rights and health.  The ravages of COVID laid all of this bare.  The black men killed by police officers, a small portion of whom I enumerated in my last post, culminating in the murder of George Floyd last week has added incredible fury and fuel to a pandemic of rampant racism and a deadly virus.  Still, there are those who choose to lead.  Many governors, mayors, and yes - even police chiefs - have filled the void and worked to lead us through the ongoing pandemic, the peaceful protests of those who object, demanding change, to the continuation of our racist ways, and the horrible slime who would use this chaotic time to loot and burn.

Yes, even during these times...


These Portland, Oregon officers took a knee in solidarity with protesters.
This police force built bridges, bonding with demonstrators in Flint, Michigan.
And from my own city, Police Chief Roddy issued the statement above, in Chattanooga, TN.
Granted, these are small points of light given the darkness that currently surrounds us.  But, they can light our way, if we let them.  This is what real leadership looks like.  This is where we can draw hope and strength.  This is something we can build on.
Much love to each of you.  ~ les